Monday, April 3, 2017

The Holocaust of Islamic conquests in India

This document was was submitted by  me as assignment for the coursera course Soul Beliefs and consequences
The Holocaust of Islamic conquests in India

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March21, 2017
Ayodhya Ram Mandir Issue: Supreme Court Suggests Out-Of-Court Settlement -

The Moghul Empire established in India by Invading Islamic forces between 1000 AD to 1800 AD has reportedly destroyed 1856 temple complexes in India and built Mosques on that site. One such Complex is the Ram Janmabhoomi Complex in the City of Ayodhya in the State of Uttar Pradesh. Ayodhya is the birthplace of Avatar of Lord Vishnu as Rama. The unused Mosque that was built by Emperor Babar in the 15th century after destroying the temple of Lord Ram there, was pulled down by Hindu volunteers in the year 1991. A Case has been filed in the Supreme court of India by the opposing parties on their right to build their place of worship. Supreme court has suggested an out of Court settlement.


Background on Islamic Invasion of India

The world-famous historian, Will Durant has written in his Story of Civilization that "the Mohammedan conquest of India was probably the bloodiest story in history".

India before the advent of Islamic imperialism was not exactly a zone of peace. There were plenty of wars fought by Hindu princes. The non-combatants were never killed or captured. A human habitation was never attacked unless it was a fort. The civil population was never plundered. War booty was an unknown item in the calculations of conquerors. The martial classes who clashed, mostly in open spaces, had a code of honor. Sacrifice of honor for victory or material gain was deemed as worse than death.
Islamic imperialism came with a different code--the Sunnah of the Prophet. It required its warriors to fall upon the helpless civil population after a decisive victory had been won on the battlefield. It required them to sack and burn down villages and towns after the defenders had died fighting or had fled. The cows, the Hindu Priests, and the Bhikkhus invited their special attention in mass murders of non-combatants. The temples and monasteries were their special targets in an orgy of pillage and arson. Those whom they did not kill, they captured and sold as slaves. The magnitude of the booty looted even from the bodies of the dead, was a measure of the success of a military mission. And they did all this as mujahids (holy warriors) and ghazls (kafir-killers) in the service of Allah and his Last Prophet.
Hindus found it very hard to understand the psychology of this new invader. For the first time in their history, Hindus were witnessing a scene which was described by Kanhadade Prabandha (1456 AD) in the following words:
"The conquering army burnt villages, devastated the land, plundered people's wealth, took Priests and children and women of all classes captive, flogged with thongs of raw hide, carried a moving prison with it, and converted the prisoners into obsequious Turks."
For the Hindus, Islamic jihadi invasion was like an Alien invasion or an Artificial Intelligence turning on its creators to eliminate them as imperfections.
List of Temples Destroyed in India by Islamic forces.
From the above we see that Islamic invasions and empire building of India that started around 1000 AD and lasted for about 800 years was not only conquest of land and wealth but an attempt to convert to enslave people belonging to Hindu religion. Since Muslims did not believe in idol worship, they destroyed temples and idols of Hindu gods, looted the gold and precious stones,  and built mosques on the temple land.
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The link below lists about 1856 temples in India that have been been destroyed and Mosques built on the temple land, oftentimes using the debris of the temple destroyed.
The link below lists the major Hindu Temples that have been destroyed and mosques built on that land
Hindus in India were persecuted by Muslim rulers in several ways. Murder, rape and pillage during war, conversion to Islam (forced conversion using the sword), Slavery of Muslims, destruction of temples and places of worship and conversion of them into Mosques, Additional tax on Non-Muslims, Cow slaughter (which is not allowed in Hinduism) and Minority Islamic rule over the majority Hindu population.
Rebuilding of Ram Temple for Hindus is bringing back some much-delayed justice for the atrocities pretreated by Islamic rulers and reclaiming their land from the hands of Muslims and pseudo secularists (those who would recognize even basic rights of the majority and support the atrocious rights of minority) and communists who collaborated after the independence to retain power. But the Islamic hardliners are pig headed, relentless and unreasonable in not granting reasonable wishes of Hindus who want to rebuild their temple for beloved Ram in one of the holiest of places, Ayodhya (and not in Mecca).

This situation can be warning to the rest of the world that is just waking up to Islamic terrorism, as to what might happen to their folks, beliefs, human rights and religions and places of worship should Islamic forces dominate the world politics. (or should any one religion dominate the world politics either by fear or greed).

Thursday, March 9, 2017

Could Societies have existed without religion? And Soul Beliefs in Hinuduism


This document was was submitted by  me as assignment for the coursera course Soul Beliefs and consequences. I Have also included here a posting I did in the course titled “Soul Beliefs in Hinduism”.
Could Societies have existed without religion?
"Kovil illadha uril kudiirukathey"(கோவில் இல்லாத ஊரில் வாசிக்கதே)the Tamil saying loosely translated to mean “Do not reside in town or village that does not have a temple.” I tend to agree with this sentient and feel other humans must have felt the same and it is more than likely that no society existed without religion.
The question is whether humans invented moral codes and religion to ensure social order, prevent freeloaders and create fighters for warring groups or if like finding fire the humans stumbled upon god realization while entering trance state while dancing or during contemplation and  deep meditation – rituals and moral code derived later from this realization or handed down by a prophet/saint.
The evolutionary psychologists like Wade believe that the primitive societies moved away from Alpha male dominated society to egalitarian society (where no one individual was the leader); the dominant person was at risk as others tended to gang up against them. Sharing of the hunt and produce was encouraged. In such societies, moral code was necessary to ensure survival of the group and ensure that everyone does their part and fighters were willing to lay down their life for the sake of the group. Such moral code was promoted by rituals such as ritualistic dancing, music and adhering  moral code of conduct.
Rewards were meted out of good conduct and punishment handed out for deviations from the norm. It was not always possible to punish or reward all the folks and afterlife reward punishments system was invented and the belief in the soul took root. Also, it is possible that folks found it difficult to accept death of the dear ones or their own death and hence the belief in soul that lived on forever might have been created. Folks also started believing in super natural forces to account for disease, floods, earthquakes and other natural disasters who could be endeared through rituals, prayer and sacrifices to lessen the burden on the individual and the group and emerge victorious in inter group warfare.
Such groups who adopted moral and religious values ensured social harmony and survival of the group. Those groups who did not perished due to natural selection say the evolutionary psychologists. Hence it is concluded that “No society has exited (or survived) without religion”. It is also observed that all societies without exception have common religious beliefs and most folks have religious tendencies and this corroborates the above view or conclusion.
Other View is that God created the physical world and all souls by first creating a group of heavenly beings and saintly beings who performed the work of further creation. he creation stories of various religions although differ in many aspects (according to Hinduism the present cycle of creation 155 trillion years old but as per Christianity it is only 6000 years, the all accept god being the creator. In this route the religion is well integrated in the creation and hence by this process also “No society has existed without religion. So, societies, whiter viewed as evolution or creation could not have existed without religion.
It appears in the global village the wealth (money, scientific knowledge, the ability to win wars) rest with a few prosperous nations. Is this an indication that other nations will gang up against them or will it continue to be dominated by powerful nations and individuals? Anticipating this, powerful nations also have built up nuclear arsenals capable of destroying all life on the planet. Also, the survival of the species is being threatened by what is called the sixth extinction where the human race is destroying the planet due to excessive resource consumption. Hence the survival of species may rely on religion of happiness and meaningful life without having to consume disproportionate amount of resources. We see the signs of this happening; but is it happening at a fast-enough rate? How do we handle the threat of nuclear arsenal (The very fact that we have them is an indication that we are ready to use them)? Or is it that nature will take its course and create conditions in the world that only certain number of lives will be preserved? So, as the humanity and many other species face extinction, what will be nature of religious activity that will evolve that will ensure the survival of species as it has done in the past?

Soul Beliefs in Hinduism
Since the write up did not say much about soul beliefs in Hinduism except the concept of recycle of souls till attains  the "ultimate reality", I thought that I will put down what I have been told (some it experienced)
1) There is the eternal soul that existed before creation that is beyond time and space (This mean infinite time and space and also means only here and now exists - Since we are all historically minded, we will go with infinite space and time). Some Call it Vishnu, others call it Siva some others call it Shakthi (the female version). Let us leave it alone for now.
2) The eternal soul created the universe and and is not separate from it. Examples give are like a spider that creates the web (creation) and pulls it back (end of creation - leading to another creation). Or a smile on face is distinct expression and also part of the face.
3) The individual souls are body of the divine soul and hence all are connected to the eternal soul and also distinct (just as we feel each cell in our body is distinct). Although we think/feel that we are experiencing life, it is the eternal soul that actually experiences everything
4) Our Body/mind and ego prevents us from realizing this reality (This illusion is called Maya).
5) The eternal soul first created Brahma (Who  does the job of creation), Vishnu (is it the same as eternal soul, there are various versions of it the protector of the universe) and Siva (the Destroyer or who helps the soul to return to the source by destroying the Maya). Brahma creates the various souls, initially by creating very may saintly beings, who propagate the creation (Not considered sin but actually doing gods work). Even animals, birds, snakes and plants have souls.
6) The creation, like seasons goes on in cycles of four (called yugas) . Here is wiki Link to Yugas. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yuga. and we are in about 155 trillion years of the present cycle of creation (quite small in comparison to infinity)
7) The souls go through recycling based on their karmas (actions in present life) and unfulfilled desires. If your final desires are noble you are reborn with good purpose and circumstances in life and the opposite. The person who contemplates on god at the end of life is not reborn. Those who had devoted to god's purpose most of life or had surrendered to enlightened gurus are also not reborn (due grace of guru or God). Mostly we cannot do it ourselves.
8) Our world is called "Lilavibhuti" is where all this happens. There is another world called "Nityavibhuthi" where souls have attained the eternal soul and are never reborn (this 3/4th in size) and ours is only 1/4th in size.
9) The eternal soul or its representative or born in the world to guide others are to establish Dharma (The way it was meant to be), when dharma is disturbed greatly. These birth out choice (not out of Karma or desire) are called "appearances" and not birth.
10) The eternal soul is considered by some as formless and without any qualities by some where as other believe that the eternal soul has infinite from and infinite qualities.
11) Hinduism sounds polytheistic with may Gods; but actually it is one god with almost infinite forms. This Characterized by "Vishwarupa" where the lord reveals himself to be all the souls). The term I recently learned in "Pantheistic", I think it refers someone who is everything and is yer distinct from it all. God is not just creator (hence an external force) of the many splendored world; God is the world. Ultimately everything is distinct expression of Brahman.
More Later, As I learn More.


Monday, January 23, 2017

Mindfulness and Psycology of overcoming "Dhukka"




Here is a collection of three articles that I wrote as assignments for the Coursera Courses Buddhism & Modern Psychology and Demystifying Mindfulness. Buddha's diagnosis of Dhukka  (suffering or sorrow)in Human Existence and his prescription to overcome them are discussed here. Some views of Modern Psychology are also presented in this connection.
Comments on Buddha's diagnosis on Human suffering.
Buddha's diagnosis of suffering and dissatisfaction in human existence is due to desire for/craving for and trying to cling on to temporary things like   existence,  pleasures of life, loved ones, desired objects and objectives. Humans never seem to fully understand the impermanence of things and suffer due to craving from the same. This stated in week-1 lectures on First Two Noble Truths.
I agree with the diagnosis We desire for / crave for things that give us pleasure or instant gratification like alcohol and suffer the consequences of hangover. We desire continual existence and rebirth (although rebirth is not included in the course material, it is included in the original Buddha sermon) which is full of suffering of birth, death old age and sickness and afflictions like hunger, thirst, war and pestilence. Sometimes clinging to existence might mean slavery, wrongful livelihood / deeds that will lead to suffering and still we crave it. We cling on to our loved one like children and but suffer when they move on. We crave for meaningful life and We suffer if we cannot discover it immediately. We desire for material objects and suffer if do not get them / or suffer the consequences of wrong deeds to obtain them.
Buddha Seems to have missed the other aspect of suffering resulting from avoidance of things or aversion to things that might be beneficial our existence. For example, initially we might have an aversion to studying (as against playing) that will lead to knowledge, exercising or consuming healthy foods that might to lead better health. We might even have aversion to (or get bored by) religious practices or meditative practices (as we would rather crave and pursue hedonistic pleasures) that might have led us to be detached to maximizing our existence alone. But it could be argued that craving for temporary things includes its opposite that is aversion to seeking more permanent things / objectives. Buddha might have wanted to cover these aspects in the prescription part to end suffering in human existence.
This diagnosis is similar to versions in many religions where it is stated that the real human suffering is due to separation from the beloved god (or source of existence). Also this separation is the source dissatisfaction in life. How can anything life e more satisfying than being with god in the most perfect settings and where is no need or desires as such? This craving for some unfulfilled desire what makes to be reborn (which is not discussed in this course) or crave for same things repeatedly even when we know that this desire results in suffering ultimately.
In week-1 the view of the modern psychology that is desire fulfillment that lasts only briefly is essential for the propagation of One's genes as the temporary nature of desire fulfillment is the mechanism by which we seek the fulfillment of desire over and over again and that leads to propagation of our  genes to next generation. This may be considered as reward mechanism that ensures that we undertake this propagation.
Another aspect of suffering in human existence is living life in a way that it does not follow Dhamma or natural order of things. This is not stated in Buddha's diagnosis but later on covered in the prescription to overcome the suffering. This has to do with taking up actions without being attached the outcomes or fruits (Karma Yoga), or pursuit of right knowledge (Gnana Yoga) or the devotion to god or trusting existence totally (Bhakthi Yoga). Doing actions or living life without following these above paths will also lead to suffering. However, it can be argued these aspects are indirectly covered as it is not possible to follow these paths if one is craving and clinging and is attached to one's existence alone.
Another question that Buddha has not covered (at least as per course material) is why we are born in the first place? if life is full of suffering, why then we choose to be born in the first place. If it is not our choice and is some else's how then can we choose to get over that has control over birth and destiny?
To summarize, I mostly agree with Buddha's diagnosis for suffering and dissatisfaction in human existence is due to craving ad clinging to temporary things in life, pleasure of life, loved ones, desired objects and to existence itself. Thus, also consistent with views of other religions is that main cause of suffering in Human existence is due to separation from beloved god. Buddha failed to emphasize directly to our aversion to and avoidance of good habits and rightful / yogic living that would result in existence without suffering. Buddha also does not cover in his diagnosis why we are born in the first place given that there is suffering in the human existence.
Evolutionary Psychology and Buddha’s Ideas of Human condition
Buddha's diagnosis of suffering and dissatisfaction in human existence is due to desire for/craving for and tendency to cling on to temporary things like   existence, pleasures of life, loved ones, desired objects and objectives (or in short things that might be pleasant or give us pleasure). Humans never seem to fully understand the impermanence of things and suffer due to craving from the same. This is stated in week-1 lectures on First Two Noble Truths. This desire for things can be termed as attraction towards things that create pleasant emotions. The pleasure lasts only for short while and we again desire the pleasantness and crave for and cling on to things that provide us this. This repeated process can enhance mild attraction to full blown greed.
Included in this attraction is aversion to things that cause unpleasantness initially such as Studying to improve knowledge or exercising and consuming healthy foods (not necessarily pleasant in taste) that might lead to better health.  We might even have aversion to (or get bored by) religious practices or meditative practices (as we would rather crave and pursue hedonistic pleasures) that might have led us to be detached to maximizing our existence alone. This aversion repeated to avoid unpleasantness might lead us to Hatred. Ignorance of (or failure to see clearly) the impermanence of both pleasantness and unpleasantness in comparison with the resultant suffering / dissatisfaction or Joy / satisfaction is what takes us to both greed and hatred. This is the Buddha’s diagnosis of human condition in which suffering and dissatisfaction permeates. Most humans are captivated in this triad of Greed, Hatred and ignorance that leads to suffering and dissatisfaction.
Modern science in the form of evolutionary psychology explains how natural selection (individuals best adapted to their environments are more likely to survive and reproduce) works. Natural selection “designs” the human brain system with one and only goal, that is to get human genes to the next generation. How does natural selection accomplish this? By eating the humans are kept alive and sexual activity ensures that the genes are transmitted to next generation. Also, elevating the social status ensures that they are fed and more opportunities are available for sex. Social status is correlated in humans and primates in transferring genes to the next generation.
Pleasure is important for humans and animals to reach the goals of survival (eating) and procreation (sex). And the pleasure should not last forever, as if it does, the humans will stop eating or having sex and reducing the chances of survival and procreation. So, by design the pleasure needs to be fleeting on impermanent. And the unpleasant sensation of hunger for food and sexual gratification needs to arise again for the humans to eat and try to procreate again. This increases the probability of transmission of genes to the next generation. Also, the humans need to focus more on the obtaining pleasure than on the subsequent evaporation of pleasure otherwise they will not chase pleasure or live anticipating it. Included in this mechanism is sorrow or unhappiness in activities that demote survival or procreation. According to modern science these are reasons why we seek pleasure that evaporates quickly, are prevented from seeing clearly the real nature of pleasure and are made to crave for it.
The above evolutionary psychology is consistent with the Buddha statement that pleasure (or pleasantness) tends be impermanent and leaves us unsatisfied. Pleasure seems to be designed by natural selection to evaporate so that we will chase after it and be involved in activities that will ensure the survival and procreation of the species. Buddha Says the we do not clearly see the nature of pleasure and fleeting nature of the same and it is designed that way by natural selection, so that we act per its objective of survival and procreation.
To summarize, Buddha said that the pleasure is not permanent and lead us to dissatisfaction and modern science views that natural selection designed it that way so that we are motivated to do the work of survival and procreation. Buddha says we do not see things clearly in that we focus on the pleasure and not the impermanence of it and natural selection has designed it so that we keep anticipating pleasure and chasing it forgetting the fleeting nature of pleasure. Natural selection is not interested in making us permanently happy or satisfied as this may not be in the interest of survival or procreation. Natural selection only wants to use pleasure (or pain) and impermanence of it and our inability to see it clearly to ensure the survival and procreation of the species. This is similar our viewing a rope as snake (or the fear of unknown) as viewing that way enhances the chances of survival of the species.
The Buddha’s prescription for how to get over this human predicament (not discussed here)  is considered as a revolution against the process of natural selection and the slavery it imposes on the human species.
Buddhism and Mindfulness
The specific tradition that grabs my attention is the Buddhist tradition. As per Buddha the Dukkha, that is the suffering and dissatisfaction that permeates in human existence is due to our craving for things that give us pleasure (including aversion to things that give us pain or unpleasantness) and the attempt to cling on to these pleasures which are temporary in nature. Once the temporary pleasure ceases, we once more crave for it and try to cling on. This cycle leads to suffering and dissatisfaction. Aversion to things that might be beneficial like exercise, learning, meditation, etc that are not necessarily pleasant (or boring) is also part of it.  There are three elements in it attraction to (or greed) to things that are pleasant and aversion to (or hatred) towards unpleasant things and ignorance of the fact both are impermanent in Nature.
The way out of this cycle is to realize the Dhamma  (the unseen true nature of things and the way the universe is structured and the way we should live in accordance with this realization). The eightfold path recommended by Buddha is the Dhamma way to realize the state of Nibana or liberation from the triads of Hatred, Greed and ignorance.
The Eightfold Path Consists of
1. Complete or Perfect Vision, - right view or understanding. Vision of the nature of reality.
2.  Perfected Emotion or Aspiration - right thought or attitude. Liberating emotional intelligence in your life and acting from love and compassion. An informed heart and feeling mind that are free to practice letting go.
3. Perfected or whole Speech -  right speech. Clear, truthful, uplifting and non-harmful communication.
4. Integral Action.  called right action. An ethical foundation for life based on the principle of non-exploitation of oneself and others.
5. Proper Livelihood. -  right livelihood. This is a livelihood based on correct action the ethical principle of non-exploitation. The basis of an Ideal society.
6. Complete or Full Effort, Energy or Vitality.  right effort or diligence. Consciously directing our life energy to the transformative path of creative and healing action that fosters wholeness. Conscious evolution.
7.  Complete or Thorough Awareness. Also, called "right mindfulness". Developing awareness, "if you hold yourself dear watch yourself well". Levels of Awareness and mindfulness - of things, oneself, feelings, thought, people and Reality.
8.  Full, Integral or Holistic Samadhi.  Samadhi literally means to be fixed, absorbed in or established at one point, thus the first level of meaning is concentration when the mind is fixed on a single object. The second level of meaning goes further and represents the establishment, not just of the mind, but also of the whole being in various levels or modes of consciousness and awareness.
Mindfulness Practice is the seventh of the eightfold path. Practicing mindfulness, I noticed has improved our performance of the first 6 paths. While Practicing mindfulness, I will also pay attention to the other 6 aspects of the path. By this practice I hope that my quality of life in terms of happiness, awareness, health, understanding, communication and relationships will improve.


Friday, September 16, 2016

An Introduction to Mindfulness Practice and benefits

An Introduction to Mindfulness Practice and  Benefits

In his book Siegel quotes Jon Kabat Zinn as defining mindfulness as: “The awareness that emerges through paying attention on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally to the unfolding of experience moment by moment.”

What is mindfulness?
Mindfulness can be described as paying attention to what we are experiencing in this moment, and doing so with a particular attitude: One of curiosity, openness, acceptance and warmth. Simply observing what we are experiencing, right now, and bringing a warm curiosity to whatever arises.  In formal mindfulness practices our intention is often to center our awareness on one particular experience, such as the sensations involved in breathing or the sounds that we can hear, or to widen our awareness to incorporate a range of experiences simultaneously, or to watch where our attention goes without getting caught up in particular experiences. Mindfulness is also something that we can bring to any aspect of our day to day life, cultivating the same qualities of curiosity, acceptance and warmth.  
The benefits of Mindfulness include
Helping individuals to:
a)    Recognise, slow down or stop automatic and habitual reactions.
b)   Respond more effectively to complex or difficult situations
c)    See situations more clearly.
d)   Become more creative.
e)    Achieve balance and resilience at work and at home.
f)     Have an easier and lighter life


Mental Health benefits of Mindfulness course

Mindfulness course has helped people to reduce their stress levels and has proven to reduce their levels of anxiety and depression, even when measured after one month after completing the course.

Here are the averaged results for everyone who has completed the Course.

Average Stress Reduction 39%
ANXIETY
Average Anxiety Reduction 53%
DEPRESSION
Average Reduction in Depression 52%




The Following discussion on mindfulness on its definition, practice, benefits d everyday mindfulness an is taken from online content (with references provided). One hopes the reader will gain deeper understanding of this useful practice. One hopes that they will get motivated practice and be to learn mindfulness and benefit from the knowledge and practice. 




An introduction to Mindfulness


http://teach-yourself-mindfulness.com/what-is-mindfulness-the-definition-of/

Have you ever been eating a snack bar, and after one or two bites, noticed that all you were holding was an empty wrapper? Perhaps you have noticed that when you’re driving somewhere, you arrive at your destination only to realise that you remember nothing about the journey, sometimes not even which route you took? Everyone has! These are common examples of “mindlessness,” or “automatic pilot mode”. In modern life, we find ourselves so busy that we must constantly multi task just to keep up. It becomes increasingly easy to lose awareness of the “now”, the present moment we exist in as we become lost in in our efforts to juggle work, home, family, finances, and other conflicting demands.
As humans, we often find ourselves “not present” in our own lives. We frequently fail to notice the good things about our lives, ignore what our bodies are telling us, or poison our minds and attitudes with toxic self-criticism.
The human mind is easily distracted, habitually reviewing and examining past events to anticipate the future. While it may not sound obviously helpful to become more aware of our thoughts, feelings and emotions, learning to do this in a way that suspends judgment and self-criticism can have an incredibly positive impact on our lives.
Mindfulness is a way of clearly seeing the now, paying attention to whatever is happening in our lives. It will not eliminate life’s pressures, but rather, help us respond to them in a calm manner that benefits out heart, mind, and body. It teaches us to recognize and pull back from habitual, often unconscious emotional and physiological reactions to everyday events. It provides us with a scientifically researched approach to cultivating clarity, insight, and understanding; practicing mindfulness allows us to be fully present in our life and work, improving our quality of life.

“Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; 

On purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.”


Paying attention “on purpose”


First, understand that mindfulness involves paying attention “on purpose”. Mindfulness involves consciously directing our awareness. We sometimes (me included) talk of “mindfulness” and “awareness” as if these two terms are completely interchangeable, but that is not a good habit to get into. Even if I’m aware that I’m irritable, that doesn’t mean that I’m being mindful of my own irritability. Instead of being just vaguely or habitually aware, mindfulness means that I am purposefully aware of myself. Knowing that I’m eating is not the same thing as eating mindfully.
Let’s look closer at the example of eating. When we are fully aware (mindful) of eating, we are consciously aware of the process of eating. We’re deliberately noticing the sensations of the experience, and our responses to those sensations. We’re also noticing the mind wandering, and purposely bringing our attention back to the moment.
As a contrast, when we’re eating unmindfully, we may in theory be aware of what we’re doing, but we’re probably also distracted from the experience by a hundred and one other things, maybe watching TV, talking, or reading — or even all three at once! Only a very small part of our awareness is absorbed with eating, barely aware of the physical sensations and even less aware of our own thoughts and emotions.
Thus, because we’re only dimly aware of our thoughts, they wander unrestricted. There is no conscious attempt to bring our attention back to eating, intentional choice is lacking.
This intentional choice (purposefulness) is a vital part of mindfulness. Having the purpose of staying with our experience: the feeling of your breath, a particular emotion, or something as simple as eating, means that we are actively engaging and shaping the mind.

Paying attention “in the present moment”


When left to itself, the mind wanders through all kinds of thoughts — including thoughts expressing anger, depression, craving, self-pity, revenge, etc. As we indulge in these kinds of thoughts, we reinforce those emotions in our hearts, causing ourselves to suffer. Mostly, these thoughts are about the past or future, but the past no longer exists and the future is just a fantasy until it happens. The one moment we can actually experience — the present moment — is the one we seem to avoid the most.
So in mindfulness, we’re concerned with noticing what’s going on right now. This doesn’t mean we can no longer think about the past or future, but when we do, we do it mindfully, aware that right now we’re thinking about the past or future.
However, in mediation, we’re concerned with what thoughts are arising in the present moment. When we start to “space out” and when thoughts about the past or future take us away from the present moment’s experience, we try to notice and come back to the present.
By purposefully directing our awareness away from such thoughts and towards our “anchor” or our present moment’s experience, we begin to decrease their effect on our lives, creating a space of freedom where calmness and contentment can grow instead.

Paying attention “non-judgmentally”


Mindfulness is an emotionally non-reactive state. We don’t judge this experience as good or that one as bad, or if we do make those judgments, we notice it and let go of them. We don’t get upset because we’re experiencing something we don’t want to be experiencing, or because we’re not experiencing what we would like to be experiencing. We simply accept whatever arises, observing it mindfully. We notice it arising, passing through us, and then ceasing to exist.
Whether it’s a pleasant experience or a painful experience, we treat it the same way.
Cognitively, mindfulness means that we are aware certain experiences are pleasant and some are unpleasant, but on an emotional level, we simply do not react. We call this “equanimity” — stillness and balance of mind.

The benefits of Mindfulness include

Helping individuals to:
 Recognize, slow down or stop automatic and habitual reactions.
 Respond more effectively to complex or difficult situations.
 See situations more clearly
 Become more creative
 Achieve balance and resilience at work and at home
 Have an easier and lighter life

What does mindfulness involve?

Practitioners of mindfulness learn how to pay attention on purpose by practicing and using specially developed mindfulness meditation practices. With practice, they learn to slow down or stop brain chatter and automatic, habitual reactions, experiencing the present moment in fullness as it really is.
When practicing mindfulness, everyone, regardless of how much they practice, will experience everyday thoughts creeping into their heads uninvited. This is perfectly normal and okay – it’s just what our brains do. It’s how we respond to these thoughts that is important.
If we begin to think about the thought, or get annoyed with ourselves for not being able to retain our focus, it stops us from paying attention and takes us away from the present moment. But when we just acknowledge the thought and release it without judgment, we retain our focus, remaining fully in the present moment.
As with all new skills, the more we practice it, the easier and more natural it becomes. Canadian psychologist Donald Hebb coined the phrase, “Neurons that fire together, wire together.” In other words, the more we practice mindfulness, the more we develop neurological pathways in the brain associated with being mindful, thus making it easier to be fully present in each and every moment as you experience it.
By learning to experience the present moment as it really is, we develop the ability to step away from our habitual, often unconscious emotional and physiological reactions to everyday events. We learn to see things as they really are, responding wisely and consciously instead of relying on “auto pilot”.

Who is mindfulness for?

Mindfulness is for everyone, young and old, from all walks of life. Mindfulness is not a religion and there are no necessary religious components to mindfulness – anyone, with any belief system, can enjoy the benefits of mindfulness.
Although mindfulness may have its origins in the east, the benefits of mindfulness and meditation are now relatively mainstream and the scientific community has found data positively correlating mindfulness and meditation to stress reduction.




The Meaning of Mindfulness
http://www.thebestbrainpossible.com/the-meaning-of-mindfulness-2/

Mindfulness is one of those fashionable terms that you see getting used just about everywhere, but what exactly does it mean?
In his book, The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-Being, Daniel J. Siegel, Director of the Mindsight Institute, Co-Director of the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center and the author of several books, writes:
Mindfulness in its most general sense is about waking up from a life on automatic, and being sensitive to novelty in our everyday experiences.  With mindful awareness the flow of energy and information that is our mind enters our conscious attention and we can both appreciate its contents and come to regulate its flow in a new way.  Mindful awareness, as we will see, actually involves more than just simply being aware: It involves being aware of aspects of the mind itself.  Instead of being on automatic and mindless, mindfulness helps us awaken, and by reflecting on the mind we are enabled to make choices and thus change becomes possible.

Being mindful is not only being aware, it is being aware of awareness. It is approaching the present experience with a reflective awareness including the qualities of curiosity, openness, acceptance, and love.  Siegel has coined the acronym COAL to remember these.
In the book, Siegel quotes Jon Kabat Zinn as defining mindfulness as: “The awareness that emerges through paying attention on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally to the unfolding of experience moment by moment.”
Another definition he offers which comes from  The Innerkids Program, designed to teach young children basic mindfulness skills, is: “Being aware of what is happening as it is happening.”

Five Basic Factors Of Mindfulness

In mindfulness studies, there are five basic factors that tend to comprise mindfulness
§  Nonreactivity to inner experience (e.g., perceiving feelings and emotions without having to react to them);
§  observing/noticing/attending to sensations, perceptions, thoughts, feelings (e.g., remaining present with sensations and feelings even when they are unpleasant or painful);
§  acting with awareness/not on automatic pilot, concentration/nondistraction (e.g., breaking or spilling things because of carelessness, not paying attention, or thinking of something else);
§  describing/labeling with words (e.g., easily putting beliefs, opinions, and expectations into words);
§  nonjudgmental of experience (e.g., criticizing oneself for having irrational or appropriate emotions).
Almost every culture and religion have practices that encourage and help people to develop awareness of the present moment or mindfulness including meditation, prayer, yoga, tai chi and qui quong.  These practices share the common intent to consciously focus awareness in a very specific way.  Siegel writes: “Direct experience in the present moment has been described as a fundamental part of Buddhist, Christian, Hindu, Islamic, Jewish and Taoist teaching.”  Mindfulness is not associated with any one religious orientation nor does it conflict with any.
Research has shown mindfulness to significantly improve a wide range of conditions from borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, eating disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder, and anxiety disorders.  It has shown to be helpful in the prevention of relapse with chronic depression and substance abuse.  I know that it has sure changed my life dramatically for the better as it helped me recover from depression and a serious brain injury resulting from a suicide attempt.  It can your change your life for the better too.
MENTAL HEALTH BENEFITS OF MINFULNESS COURSE
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Not only has the Be Mindful online course been proven to help people reduce their stress levels, but it's been proven to help reduce their levels of anxiety and depression, even when measured one month after completing the course. 

Here are the Averaged Results for everyone who has completed the Be  Mindful course to date.
Average Stress Reduction 39%
Average Anxiety Reduction 53%
Average Reduction in Depression 52%


Published Research Studies
The Be Mindful online course is recognized and substantiated by leading academic institutions. Independent research shows the effectiveness of Be Mindful in helping people with their mental health. Here are the research studies that have been published in scientific journals to date, with highlights of their significant findings:
Reducing Anxiety & Depression 
The effectiveness of the online course was the subject of a highly significant research study by Oxford University published in BMJ Open. The reported average outcomes for completers of the course show participants enjoying reductions of 58% in anxiety and 57% in depression.

http://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/3/11/e003498.full

Reducing Fatigue & Rumination
In a research study of the University of Surrey, School of Psychology evaluating the effect of the Be Mindful course on work-related rumination, chronic fatigue and sleep quality, it was found that the Be Mindful course had a significant positive influence on all factors. Course completers enjoyed a 25% decrease in rumination, a 26% reduction of chronic fatigue and 33% improved sleep quality. The findings not only show the great benefits of mindfulness, but also strongly support the effectiveness of online mindfulness training.  This seminal research study was published in the Journal of Occupational Health Psychology.

http://psycnet.apa.org/index.cfm?fa=buy.optionToBuy&id=2016-17140-001


Reducing Stress
A research study evaluating the feasibility of the Be Mindful online course and its impact on stress by the Department of Psychiatry, Oxford University in 2012 was published in BMJ Open. It showed that participants enjoyed a 43% reduction in stress.

http://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/2/3/e000803.full.html 




Mindfulness as a way of life - Tips for living mindfully
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Mindfulness for Wellbeing and Peak Performance
Mindfulness as a way of life - Tips for living mindfully

Awareness
Just being able to recognise default mode is very important. It means that we
don’t get stuck in it quite as much, but start to have moments where we literally
“wake up” out of it. As we do so, we start to recognise this other way of being
called mindfulness. We can start noticing the benefits of being more engaged and
present with our lives, for both well being and performance. Simply observing the
effects each mode of attention has on our lives naturally leads us towards
developing more mindfulness – the capacity for nonjudgmental awareness of each
moment.

One thing that is important to remember is that simply noticing the tendency to
be in default mode, without even having the intention the intention to change it,
means that we are developing awareness and the ability to be present.


Attention
Attention is a central quality of mindfulness. Once we notice that our attention is
caught up in default mode, it becomes possible to bring it back to whatever is
happening in the present. We literally start ‘coming to our senses’. As we do so
repeatedly, through sustained effort in both meditation and informal
practices/applications (‘off the cushion’, so to speak), we find that it becomes
easier to do. We notice more often when we are in default mode, and are more
easily able to simply re-engage the attention on what is happening in the
moment. As we learn to do this without further thinking (i.e. following the
thought/distraction or judging/reacting to it), we get quicker at noticing mind
wandering and coming back. We spend more time in the present and start
experiencing more of the benefits and joys of living an engaged life.

Curiosity
One of the things that helps with the increased awareness and attention
regulation is curiosity. This is why we often say it is the second central quality of
mindfulness, after attention. While curiosity is an innate quality (we are born with
it – just watch little children and how they interact with the world), we lose touch
with it as life gets faster and we start to relate to the world through concepts
and ideas rather than directly through the senses, and as we start to take things
for granted and do them on automatic pilot.

But as we have seen, we can rediscover this quality through mindfulness.
Mindfulness is the exact opposite of taking things for granted. And when we
intentionally cultivate an attitude of curiosity and interest, we get back in touch
with this innate quality. In the course, we noticed how genuine curiosity engages
us in our senses, bringing us fully into the present moment. We noticed how
relaxing and enjoyable this can be, even when we bring this curiosity to mundane,
everyday objects like breathing, which we would normally take for granted. In
fact, especially when we bring curiosity to everyday experiences such as this.
When we bring curiosity we can notice new things as well, such as how our
breath is cooler on the inhalation and warmer on the exhalation. Things also tend
to seem more vivid – sounds clearer, images brighter, food tastier. We were
invited to explore other aspects of our lives in this way, through the informal
practices of mindfulness – bringing curiosity to everyday activities.

We noticed that when we did this, even simple things like brushing our teeth,
travelling and communication became mindfulness ‘practices’. How, when we
practiced in this way, we experienced the same sense of calming the mind and
sharpening the attention as when we sit in meditation. And so we learned how to
take mindfulness ‘off the cushion’ and out into our lives.

Perhaps most importantly, in any moment where we are genuinely curious about
something, we are not reacting to it. In the beginning of mindfulness practice, for
instance, we might at times think we are accepting some experience, but very
subtly be resisting it. This is easy to do and takes some work to recognize.
But when we open to the possibility of genuinely feeling them and relating to
them directly, as they are, we suddenly find that they don’t even need to go away
for us to be happy. We can relax and enjoy the very situation we are in, even if
some unpleasant experience e.g. strong emotions are part of that situation. This is
a very important thing to remember in our day-to-day life and is one of the deeper
truths of mindfulness.

Gentleness

Related to this is the idea of gentleness. Through the ‘puppy’ metaphor and an
intention to be gentler with ourselves in each moment, this has gone beyond
being a concept and become an actual experience. Even if we found that we
continued to be rough with ourselves, at least now we know we are doing it, and
can start to observe its effects.

But we may also have realised that when we let ourselves fully feel the
discomfort (or even pain) of being rough, and notice the times we were kinder and
gentler, we were naturally drawn to this kinder way of being. The mind starts to
calm down, we feel better, and we are less avoidant of difficulties (so we can
address them more effectively).

As you move forward after this course, become really curious about the difference
between these two ways of relating to yourself and the things around you. How it
feels, how others respond to you, that sort of thing. Noticing this will tend to
motivate you to be more gentle.

Compassion
And as we start being gentler with ourselves we experience not only a reduction
in stress but also a paradoxical increase in our effectiveness and productivity, as
we cease wasting energy fighting with ourselves.

Having recognised the benefits of this way of being for ourselves, it is common
for people practising mindfulness to then find themselves spontaneously bringing
a more compassionate attitude to others. Recognizing that people who are
difficult are simply caught up in default mode and stress reactions (often with
absolutely no idea that this is what is happening to them) tends to spontaneously
result in being gentler with them. Just as being willing to truly be with our own
difficult thoughts and emotions (perhaps by placing our hand on our heart and/or
being genuinely curious about what is coming up) leads to greater wellbeing,
bringing this same acceptance, presence and curiosity to others often has a way
of transforming the situation.

Or, at the very least, ensuring that we don’t make the situation even worse for
ourselves by getting into a stress reaction of our own. We may even like to
experiment with sending kind thoughts to the person, perhaps recognizing that if
they are difficult with us for 5 minutes, they are like that with themselves 24/7.
We will learn how to do a Sending Kind Thoughts meditation this week.

Letting go
Once we have started to experience gentleness and acceptance of what is
happening, we can start to understand what it really means to let go. If we had
jumped straight into the letting go part, there is a strong chance that we can
practice what we think is ‘letting go’ but is actually attempts to avoid or get rid of
certain experiences.

Consider a ladybird in your hand. We can open up our hand, and that is letting go.
Whether the ladybird flies away, or crawls around our hand for a while, or stays
exactly where it is, or even flies away and comes back a few times, nobody can
say for sure. All that is certain is that we can be holding on in some moments, and
letting go in others. We can continue to recognize when we are holding on by
noticing the tension (and, often, conflict) that comes with it, and taking a moment
to pause and get genuinely curious about what is happening in our mind.
Remember – letting go is a lifelong process, one which happens in each moment.
Moment by moment.

Communicating
We also explored what it means to communicate mindfully. We can even do this
with people we feel completely indifferent towards or have difficulty or conflict
with. So why not make a commitment to communicating more mindfully from now
on? To recognizing our tendency to go off into the automatic pilot of
‘communication’, and instead to intentionally bring full presence to others. To
really listen to what they are saying – not just the words, but to the nonverbal
component of communication (which actually makes up 80% of the overall
communication), such as the tone of their voice, the rate of their speech, their
posture and their eye contact.

And when we speak, to really feel into what we want to say, rather than just
talking, and perhaps taking a moment to pause after we have said it and check
whether what we just said was really what we were trying to communicate. Keep
communicating in this way and notice the effect it has on your relationships and
wellbeing.

Pausing
Remember that mindfulness is something we can do in each moment. Even the
more formal ‘meditation’ is scalable. We can sit for 5 or 10 (or more) minutes with
our eyes closed, or we can simply take moments throughout the day to pause. We
might close our eyes and meditate for 30 seconds. Or we might bring our
attention to our breath for a moment, or even just feel our feet on the ground. All
of these are ways of grounding ourselves. It is very useful to do this when we are
feeling stressed or overwhelmed, and also punctuating the day with brief pauses,
to disrupt the pattern of rushing from one thing to another in a blur. To stop and
smell the roses, so to speak.

Pausing in this way can be extremely powerful. The automatic pilot of the day can
get so strong and pervasive that at times we can be in it for large parts of the
day. Remembering to just stop and take a few breaths of look around once in a
while can break this pattern, and we then tend to find that we start
spontaneously having moments of presence at other times during the day. Often
when we least expect it. As Ferris Bueller said, “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”

Discipline
Prior to learning about mindfulness, most people tend to think about discipline as
being about forcing themselves to do things by criticising themselves for not
trying hard enough. But after experiencing how simply noticing the mind
wandering is a moment of awakening that allows (or even spontaneously results
in) a natural re engagement with the present, the meaning of discipline tends to
change.

Suddenly it is less about being rough with ourselves and more about recognising
when we are off in default mode. And then being firm but gentle as we bring our
attention back, knowing that any roughness will just agitate us further, and self-critical
thoughts take us even further into default mode and away from what is
actually happening in the present moment. Discipline, then, becomes a conscious
(and life-long) process of waking up.

Neuroplasticity
It can be extremely motivating to remember that practising mindfulness literally
rewires the brain for increased happiness, well being and productivity. That is why
we have explored it throughout this course. When we think about mindfulness
from the perspective of neuroplasticity, we recognise that in any moment we are
either practising waking up or we are practising being deeper in default mode.
Moments where we recognise that we are in default mode are very valuable: in
these moments we have literally ‘woken up’. And when we bring our attention
gently back to our senses once more, we form new connections in parts of our
brain associated with being present, especially the prefrontal cortex. This part of
the brain then grows, connection-by-connection, moment-by-moment, and
suddenly we start to find ourselves being spontaneously and effortlessly more
present at other times, when we are not even consciously practising.

Two great books on this topic are The Brain That Changes Itself by Norman
Doidge and Buddha’s Brain, by Rick Hanson. You may like to read further on this if
you are interested, as a way of understanding what is happening in your brain as
you practice mindfulness, and/or as a way of motivating yourself to keep up this invaluable mental training.